biditarahman Psychology, Science, spirituality, Strength

Chameleon Effect (An Unconscious Mimicry)

Humans are the best creation of Allah. The best creation of form, color, height, beauty, and strength compared to Allah’s other creatures. The most important thing is that humans can do anything, be anything, and create anything. Why? Humans are created in three things: 1. Allah’s Soul, 2. Balance, 3. Dirt (Grounded power): Humans have the instrument (body), background (family and genes), unlimited potential for power from outside, inside skills, and an automation system. Humans have power over any animal or other creation.

Some humans can be adopted from the database (thought) to make themselves like a chameleon. They can easily copy others, pretend others, and be like others. The human system already has this character, but some can unlock this system. The Chameleon Effect is when the mind unconsciously mimics things like behavior, posture, facial expression, and mannerisms of someone else in their social environment.

Why did I raise this topic to write? Good Question. Some people can mimic sick people, and become sick; some mimic positive people and become positive; some mimic excellence and become excellence. We all mimic those in different different areas. As I discussed, this application is already in our system, but some unlock some levels, some less. You know what can be best for you or worse for you. Through my experiences with humans, I deeply understand that something strange comes to mind. What human cannot do? When I see the surroundings, I realize nothing humans can’t do. Humans can do everything. Humans can change, but some bases can stay with us. The important thing is that everything is temporary except for change. Change is permanent. Change can be good, bad, complete, or transformation, depending on your goal and purpose in life.

So, choosing your best is your choice.

Bidita Rahman

biditarahman Psychology, spirituality

“Debug” the Negative Story in Our Head

Humans have the most power in the overall creation process. Humans can think that it is the most potent substance. The soul lives in the instrument called the body and thought comes from inside and outside the world. How you diet your thought food is essential for overall health. Our negative thoughts come from the sources of the outside world, where it needs its limit to enter the inside universe. One story we as humans take a different way because of the experiences, tastes, and expressions we had before. Is there any thought conditioning we had before? If the answer is yes, we need to debug from our system. How? Limit social media and news; the benefit of limitation is getting out of the traffic on our thought road. We are the most powerful creation from the creator. So, we must understand that consuming too much food is terrible for one’s health and that too much information is also wrong for brain health. The bug always bothers us and irritates our thoughts with adverse conditions. Evil creatures bother us with the conditioning that we already have.

Solution: Read your Holy book, Meditate daily, Read good books, limit your intake of junk food and too much information, go to nature, and choose your friends wisely.

Bidita Rahman

biditarahman Psychology

Mood Doesn’t define “Actual” me?

Why does it happen? As women, somehow, my physical and mental challenges occur for a long or short time, and I completely do not understand my real me. I deeply analyze the answer. The mood depends on the internal or outside situation; it does not produce by myself. So, the tendencies from the fact are not conscious, which can define the unreal vs. real me; it just happens. It is playing inside the brain where it needs to put the information to utilize where not. I read Dr. van der Kolk’s book because I like to “troubleshoot” myself and take proactive action to fix whatever needs fixing. The results were a mixed bag, and I’m learning that this is one area in which I need to be patient and, more critically, gentle with myself. When you understand the inner trauma or outside the terms of the ugliest truth, the process of stretching the mind can be handled. The actual me understands the whole process consistent with the belief.

Bidita Rahman

biditarahman Poetry, Psychology, Thought

Deja Vous

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Deja Vous
Bidita Rahman
The snowy emotion,
seeking the road of devotion-
Walking towards the revolution
its reincarnation, reincarnation
I saw before; it happens to me
its again I feel, I feel back to see
its Deja Vous, I realize it still allowing my knee
to broke down again,
and I am seeking his eyes,
a bloody red eyes, deadly psychic eyes,
I saw it had seen it begin.
I felt it over, and I feel goosebumps.
It should not occur again.
I become tremendously overawing.
My thoughts again to waving
and back to me again
to diminish my present!

biditarahman Psychology, Strength, Thought, Truth

Cognitive Temperature

 

 

 

 

Temperature means “the degree or intensity of radiation present in a thing or object, especially as expressed according to a comparative measure and shown by a regulator or sensed by touch.” Our Cognitive health has its temperature level; when we get angry, it brings us up; it means heat inside, its dehydrated, and exhaustion. When we feel average temperate, then it creates peace and active. As we know about the mental temperature gives us what we really in the current state. We react; we act everything depends on your internal environment. Our inner past experiences are the reason how we communicate with the external world. Outside temperature, we cannot control, but we monitor and protect from it. Hows about the internal temperature? Are we protect from that emotional temperature? Ans: Yes, we can. We protect through meditation, yoga, a healthy lifestyle, Pray, and accomplishment.
Bidita Rahman

biditarahman Psychology, Strength, Truth

Inhuman Moves

 

 

 

 

Humans are the first power of this world. And they have the sharp initial tools which they can achieve anything they want. Human itself has inner light and darkness and has the most powerful tools, whose name is choice. If any person can deal with challenges, then it is possible to have success; that third energy does not like. The third power in this world exists to harm humans and their existence. They made by smokeless fire. We do not see them but feel them and believe they watch our everything. And they have the power to spread our body and mind. Human has the potentiality to know anything and achieve anything. When the third power inside us, we become more powerful, which is demonic influence/ inhumanity. When you feel most angry, and furious then change your position and think about him who created you.

Bidita Rahman

biditarahman Psychology, Strength, Thought, Truth

Anger transformation

Anger

“Anger is a immortal ghost, what you face everyday” –Bidita Rahman

Anger is the most powerful emotion in which humans can sense the unconscious seeds put on the mind and harvest on it when some occurrence happens; then, it pops up very quickly. The difference between the engaging mind and body are interconnected, but the way of expressions we build inside is sometimes slowly pain, frustration, and fear, and it creates anger. Controlling mind is useless to try, because the brain is most powerful what you can do is to present the situation, understand the activities and performances. If we put our mind in irritation seeds to the vast mind field, then the ultimate harvesting could be a disaster to pay for it, so the anger can be transformed when it starts to feel than calm down and ask a question of why you are getting this angry? Is that worth it? Are angry controls you? Is your emotion beyond your way of understanding and capabilities? If the answer is yes. Do not blame others. Do not need to grow others? Grow yourselves. Your part of responsibilities only depends on you, nobody control over you. Therefore the expectation needs to remove in that sense; try to add your values and self-respect, which can help to transform the emotion to other emotions.

Bidita Rahman

biditarahman Psychology, Strength, Thought, Truth

Thought Fractions

” Do not believe everything, you think?”
Our thought process is a world where we live in — the characteristic of psychic, mental state where thoughts and conversation of illogical and logical sequences fighting together always. The sequences we think and the content we sometimes feel elusive and experiencing paranoia. Some of we are suffered in superiority complex and some inferiority. But the thing is to understand the situation where you need to be superior and where you do not. Inferiority feeling is terrible to feel where the possibility of losing confidence as well. Thought to maintain the need where it concentrates on the particular program. The fluctuation of thought faces ups and downs from time to time. When you complete one stage, then another step is focused on different needs. But need exist till death. When every single word you think which is experiencing by your experience and background, and it not to believe everything because it is sometimes unbelievable within the time. Thought fraction is essential because the portion you feel is to focus on further action because plenty of infinite thoughts causes millions of beliefs, which is neither rational nor irrational. When eliminating the unnecessary multiple terms of the unequal ideas, then the only combination of the focus destruction can be identified and add or subtract the perceptions to increase the intellectual capacity and engage with the importance of time, place, and people.

Bidita Rahman