The situation about people handling with greetings and welcoming and when they start screaming or blaming us. After that, it will say with warm and dishonor critic like, “Thank you for your courage and concern”. Try to identify the main problem of people’s anger. Listen to them. People see lots of roadblocks to getting involved in their life. Some point to their demanding schedules and say they don’t have extra time to volunteer or even attend any real activities, much less get involved in more significant ways. Others reveal how uncomfortable they feel when trying to communicate with other people, friends or neighbors, whether that due to language or cultural differences or their past experiences with their life. It is sometimes woeful that any person gets too much stressed with other person or family members. But we need to understand their feelings as well. Why fear, not anger is usually the culprit and how to use that knowledge to calm the person down. It needs to practice with home and spouse or other peer or friends with these badly fear we can control. Breath in Breath out can help the problem to be handled. Emotional creditability where emotion could be manipulated rather than convince credibly. Effectiveness vs. credibility means an argument is logically sound and well supported by strong evidence and reasoning. Emotional Credibility is more specific problem discussed with a trusted person rather than more general is more dismiss they feel. The more specific or are with your process with the person the more control they feel and the more control they feel they will calm down. This credibility can help to calm down and let them think that one person to other person is partners for better growth of their relationship. When people need to say something must be careful with words and speak very carefully with positioning. We need to remember we have to train ourselves to talk with them because it’s a sensitive issue. When words can make inaction mood than what should we do, we can use an emotional crisis or emotional priority. We need to know that dealing with people is the most essential tools for any human, manager, leader, teacher, administrator, author or any other profession. It is an ordinary and critical skill for sustaining in society and community.
April 16, 2018
If you give something from you, who deserve than you haven’t lost anything you gain your inner positive energy to do more from this energy to earn more to give more.
—- Bidita Rahman—-
We are a tiny little dot when we do something that dot move around to know more about your existence. If not- nothing connected the dot to get something big.
You are the one who can determine to win and action to be a conquest. You are tougher and greater than your thought and action. You can deliberate your intention to ultimate victory. You have the power of infinite freedom of Universe. Your level of ability is an eternity but the restriction of your image of what you believe. No limitation can stop the Human Being infinite Power. Human is the creation from the Great creation of the Creator who can build the immortal love and wisdom to destroy destruction.
July 28, 2017
The more you learn and experiment in real life the more you believe that way. Feeling trigger is only controlled by yourself, not others. If we change the direction right away, our belief and strength will be transferred gradually. I personally experiment some things which are very deeper to understand that when I start to test myself that which water can I absorb -hot water and cold water? I find out when push the button of hot water 75 degrees I feel good, but when I increase more temperature I become feeling more uncomfortable then I stop and think 5 minutes to absorb this temperature and then It seems to get comfortable. On the other hand, I do same way in cold temperature and stop -1 than feeling like a freeze, but I can absorb. After completing my task, I observe myself that our mind is stronger than anything in this universe. We can absorb anything, but we have the limitation of in external factors.
So the thing is the more we gain, the deeper knowledge to know anything on this earth than we can get the more prior person to ourselves to the belief that impossible is the only word made by man, not my nature.
July 26, 2017
Last few days I am overwhelmed with some research works and studies. I think all the time I am doing my job in right way to time management or not. Then after some issues, i discover something that makes sense. I realize that family, work, study, career or other responsibility is not a pressure in life. So that question is, What makes us feeling pressure?
- When we work but somebody getting backbiting, that makes us feeling bad which creates discouragement to yourself and we sometimes lost our interest to perform regular work, then we face pressure on that. So the Problem is BACKBITING.
- When we want to desire something and share with friends and family, then they strongly discourage anyway, then we feel sorry to do any work to fulfill our desire. The problem is not to see passion, the problem is DISCOURAGEMENT.
- When you work and perform your duties and responsibilities than no body gets any appreciation than the work you do you didn’t get anything from it, it will create demotivated in your mind. Then the work will be your overwhelmed pressure. So the problem is not the duty and responsibility. The problem is NOT to APPRECIATE people.
So the solution is people need to understand people and encourage them to their work or Be strong anyway, you don’t need any courage from outside of the world. Feel peace, listen to good and peaceful music, stay cool, drink plenty of water, be hydrated, and stay constant with your work and praise yourself. Come on! We are a great Human Being, We are bigger than any Problem.
July 17, 2017