The situation about people handling with greetings and welcoming and when they start screaming or blaming us. After that, it will say with warm and dishonor critic like, “Thank you for your courage and concern.” Try to identify the main problem of people’s anger. Listen to them. People see lots of roadblocks to getting involved in their life. Some point to their demanding schedules and say they don’t have extra time to volunteer or even attend any real activities, much less get involved in more significant ways. Others reveal how uncomfortable they feel when trying to communicate with other people, friends or neighbors, whether that due to language or cultural differences or their past experiences with their life. It is sometimes woeful that any person gets too much stressed with other person or family members. But we need to understand their feelings as well. Why fear, not anger is usually the culprit and how to use that knowledge to calm the person down. It needs to practice with home and spouse, or other peer or friends with these badly fear we can control. Breath in Breath out can help the problem to be handled. Emotional creditability where emotion could be manipulated rather than convince credibly. Effectiveness vs. credibility means an argument is logically sound and well supported by substantial evidence and reasoning. Emotional Credibility is a more specific problem discussed with a trusted person rather than more general is more dismiss they feel. The more specific or are with your process with the person the more control they think and the more control they think they will calm down. This credibility can help to calm down and let them believe that one person to another person is partners for better growth of their relationship. When people need to say something must be careful with words and speak very carefully with positioning. We need to remember we have to train ourselves to talk with them because it’s a sensitive issue. When words can make inaction mood than what should we do, we can use an emotional crisis or emotional priority. We need to know that dealing with people is the essential tools for any human, manager, leader, teacher, administrator, author or any other profession. It is an ordinary and critical skill for sustaining in society and community.
April 16, 2018
If you give something from you, who deserve than you haven’t lost anything you gain your inner positive energy to do more from this energy to earn more to give more.
—- Bidita Rahman—-
We are a tiny little dot when we do something that dot move around to know more about your existence. If not- nothing connected the dot to get something big.
You are the one who can determine to win and action to be a conquest. You are more robust and greater than your thought and action. You are one who deliberates your intention to ultimate victory. You have the power of infinite freedom of the Universe. Your level of ability is an eternity but the restriction of your image of what you believe. No limitation can stop the Human Being infinite Power. Human is the creation of the Great creation of the Creator who can build the immortal love and wisdom to destroy destruction.
The more you learn and experiment in real life the more you believe that way. Feeling trigger is only controlled by yourself, not others. If we change the direction right away, our belief and strength will be transferred gradually. I experiment with some things which are very more profound to understand that when I start to test myself that which water can I absorb -hot water and cold water? I find out when push the button of boiling water 75 degrees I feel good, but when I increase more temperature I become feeling more uncomfortable then I stop and think 5 minutes to absorb this temperature and then It seems to get comfortable.
On the other hand, I do same way in cold temperature and stop -1 than feeling like a freeze, but I can absorb. After completing my task, I observe myself that our mind is stronger than anything in this universe. We can incorporate anything, but we have the limitation of external factors. So the thing is the more we gain, the more in-depth knowledge to know anything on this earth than we can get the more prior person to ourselves to the belief that impossible is the only word made by man, not my nature.
July 26, 2017
Last few days I am overwhelmed with some research works and studies. I think all the time I am doing my job in right way to time management or not. Then after some issues, i discover something that makes sense. I realize that family, work, study, career or other responsibility is not a pressure in life. So that question is, What makes us feeling pressure?
- When we work but somebody getting backbiting, that makes us feeling bad which creates discouragement to yourself and we sometimes lost our interest to perform regular work, then we face pressure on that. So the Problem is BACKBITING.
- When we want to desire something and share with friends and family, then they strongly discourage anyway, then we feel sorry to do any work to fulfill our desire. The problem is not to see passion, the problem is DISCOURAGEMENT.
- When you work and perform your duties and responsibilities than no body gets any appreciation than the work you do you didn’t get anything from it, it will create demotivated in your mind. Then the work will be your overwhelmed pressure. So the problem is not the duty and responsibility. The problem is NOT to APPRECIATE people.
So the solution is people need to understand people and encourage them to their work or Be strong anyway, you don’t need any courage from outside of the world. Feel peace, listen to good and peaceful music, stay cool, drink plenty of water, be hydrated, and stay constant with your work and praise yourself. Come on! We are a great Human Being, We are bigger than any Problem.
July 17, 2017
If I compare myself to Priyanka Chopra that what a life she is leading with name, fame, money, and recognition than I will create trouble inside me. We need to love our strength which makes us stronger than this world. The great things are to be an honest feeling in me. We have to be true to us that yes I also have the essential ingredients which can help me to further- than real life will be bigger than the age. Age does not matter to succeed anything if it can matter than Colonel Harland Sanders, Owner of famous KFC, cannot Achieve with his original idea to the world. I saw many people in many countries feels O’ i am getting old to provide anything to the world than it is a problem of thoughts not our age. If some people think I am too younger to do anything well, then it is also the same negative correlation between real strength. We have to focus on the mission we have in our real sense; it needs to capture our mind to be active. Focus on Strength-Focus what your power says to you-Life requires realization, not to associate with dissatisfaction.
When we see children are free from fear and anxiety because they don’t have any past experiences to think of fear and loss of something to create stress than they will free bird to fly without tension and unhappiness. When do we stop doing great things in our life? When we interrupt ourselves to be a great person? Because of past failure and loss. Don’t we think that we are more significant than any problems in our life? If we are more extensive than this than we dare to live life with full of passion. The intention is the main thing to realize which creates purpose and the thought process is the leading cause of happiness and unhappiness. So intimate environment is the primary current of our life to do something big. Our power of habit is the key features that what we are, whom can break the negative electricity from our mind and get blank to away from the fear of not to able to do anything then nobody can stop us to deal with ultimate success. Deal with life and ask life to give more problems face to solve this for a better decision maker and feel like an Excellence.
I just realize that expectation vs. unexpectation can not fight each other because they are opposite in itself. Unexpected performance could happen that’s for sure, but we should ready for it then, when it occurs in life it cannot grab you badly. The expectation is completely in your hand that if you study whole year, you must be Top in the class unless unexpected accident comes! The unexpected situation is the exception, we all know the exception is not an example. But we have to ready for it and face it then it will make us expected fighter.